People want you to be cheery & chipper, Im a human being i have days when i feel great & days when i don’t, im allowed too.
People like you the way they imagine you at your best, this is unrealistic. People become frustrated when you put your foot down & speak up.
People will cross lines & speak on your life once they have crossed a certain threshold of friendship, i except this because we are people.
I except all the challenges of friendship because i the same hold these abilities to miss-interoperate & take reaction the wrong way.
I also recognize for some I’m difficult to deal with because impractical & astute. These are things attributed to my personality.
This is who I am just as i hope that is who you are, expectance of a persons grace as well as there foolishness is what makes friendship.
If your a persons friend only when they are at there most glorious moments, you are a leaf on there tree of life…. try being a branch, dare to be there root.
1986